Fight Your Comparison Monster in Your Business

There is a Comparison Monster (alive and well in all business owners) that keeps them from growing further.

Have you ever heard the term, “Compare and despair”?

It’s a good reminder that it can be destructive to compare ourselves to others because it can often lead to negative feelings of defeat (especially if we look at someone’s highlight reel on social media, or their great results, on a day when we’re feeling down).

There’s another, better way to look at comparison for us entrepreneurs…one that can lead to growth, new ideas and much bigger revenues, especially when we’re trying to go to the next level in our business. Here it is:

When we have big goals, like reaching 10X the clients, a global presence, or a million in revenue, it helps to find those who have achieved these big goals…even outside our own industry.

This is when we shift our thinking so we can look at these successful businesses, not to compare destructively, but rather, to be inspired…to know that what we dream of is indeed possible and to learn what needs to be done to get those kinds of results too.

When we see that it’s possible, we can dig deeper to find out how they did it.

And most importantly, we realize that if they did it, we can too. 

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Maybe you have believed in the past that you can’t reach the same exponential (quantum) business growth you see others experience. When I suggest this idea to those who are curious about Boldheart or to the business owners in our signature program, I will often hear resistance:

  • “That won’t work for my business.”
  • “They’re in a different industry, so they were able to do things I can’t possibly do.”
  • “They have all kinds of resources, infrastructure and support that I don’t. There’s just no way that will work for me.”
  • “I don’t have the kind of personality it takes to scale so big.”

While it’s absolutely understandable to feel this way when looking in from the outside (remember, ‘compare and despair’?), it’s just not true. Everything you want is available to you.

Every single very successful entrepreneur I’ve ever observed, met or worked with has gotten help to get where they are…in fact, it often takes a village for a business to succeed.

(And smart people recognize the incredible value of getting expert help.)

So what does that help look like? What’s it like to experience exponential growth and transformation in your business, which you thought was once impossible or only available to others you have previously compared yourself to? Well, in my own experience and witnessing others do it, it’s this:

  • Having the support of a seasoned mentor who is already where you want to be, and is willing to guide and support you
  • Following a customized plan of action that has clear steps for accomplishing your big goals
  • Belonging to a warm community of amazing peers who support you and celebrate your successes while lovingly holding you accountable to your goals
  • Being given the exact tools you need to serve more people and 10X your revenues

These elements practically guarantee you will start closing the gap between those you once compared yourself to and where you are right now. AMAZING.

The good news is, these parameters all work no matter what industry you’re in, and they are all available to you right now. This is what we do and what we offer (and more) in our transformational program.

In fact, many of our members past and present have shared exactly what they have done to stretch their vision and reach much, much bigger results. Read some of their inspirational stories.

In the end, I just want to say the following to you: We are here to help.

We can guide you to scale your business to 20K, 50K or 100K or more per month, while removing you from the day-to-day operations of your business so you gain your evenings, weekends and freedom back.

Book a time for us to talk now; sooner rather than later. We want to hear about your current situation and help you map out a plan to get you back in control of your business and help you scale it, while you make more, working less.

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You (yes, you) can have this,
Fabienne

P.S. I know we all think our situation is different, it’s normal to feel that way. We (my team and I) would love to find out more about you, your business, what’s challenging you now and what you envision for your impact and income, so we can see how much we have in common.

Let’s get acquainted and explore what’s possible for you, at no charge.

Our free exploratory call is just that, an exploration, so there’s no obligation. Go ahead, click the red button below and let’s book a time to get to know each other and see if we’re a good fit:

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